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What men and women want
Forget what you heard about men…

Absolutely everybody is responsible for the quality of men we have among-st us today. Damn right we all are!

Are we really responsible though?
Don’t we all one-way-or-another contribute to making our men feel like crap in disguise of kingship? Let me be thorough with you on this– I do not think it is fair that we pamper the male gender so much that; they become absolutely useless (domestically and otherwise)

Merry men
A wise man treats a woman with courtesy and utmost respect.

My hint is; a good number of our men think egotistically even though they’re so clueless. Right before they think/speak, that “I am a man, and i deserve respect” notion blindside them. Brother, get a grip… the society lied to you without second thoughts!!

You can counter these claims and findings, but before you do so, I’d like for you to perform a visual research on this topic. Trust me…you’ll find that IT IS SCAM; all those “He’s a man” blah-blah bullcrap they’ve been feeding you with.

Sweet boys association
Stop letting the society describe you… be your own identity!!

Manipulations from the society.

It has all been a means to achieving a twisted aim: men are not so difficult to manipulate. With this notion in mind, the society gets men to do their bidding: wreaking havoc and truthfully, the society is reaping the benefits from this whole chaos.

When the society has a certain brand (notion) to sell, they brainwash people into believing that product is the absolute best. Don’t you agree? Well! Let me break it down into smaller particles of senses.

Find your foreign husband here
Men are not scum… the society lied!!

Name tags and labels.

For instance; if a an older brother insists that his younger brother addresses him as “uncle” he risk losing the intimacy between them thus, the baby brother will automatically start seeing his older brother as a slightly distant relative due to the (segregated) remark his older brother makes continuously whenever he’s been approached.

Unknown to our dear “uncle” (the older brother) his baby brother will go in an endless search for his replacement (another brother/best friend) because obviously,  his older brother has graduated into being an older member of the extended part of their family.
The title doesn’t define a relationship, proper upbringing in the right mindset helps to promote love and respect.

Segregation and ego.

For as long as you continually remind people of your superiority (in any way), there’s always going to be a glitch in that relationship.
Well!! I hope that made sense to you though?

However, I strongly believe that both men and women would have cohabited without glitches if someone somewhere hadn’t blabbed about whose responsibility this and that were.

Characteristics of an adult baby.

If you do the following, you’re an adult baby;

● if you wait for your wife to return home, you’re subject to the nonchalance the society has been selling.
● If you you compel your female kids to household chores while your male off-springs are exempted; then you’re constituting a nuisance of him– demoting him to the status of a toddler.
Physically, men are stronger than women (biologically)… Still, these able-bodied masculine creatures will voluntarily direct all their heavy lifting to the weaker gender(women)… and in the end, these same men will boastfully claim superiority.

My thoughts though: Is there sense in that? What differentiates them from our government heads ( loafers)?
These things are common sense, and for the better part, some real men understands just what it takes to care for women, wives and sisters.

Turning women into modern maids.

Why subject these females to do everything for you so you can gracefully dangle your egoistic head and dick all around the place? Listen up bruv!! Be a man for once and stop being an over-pampered baby boy.


Did you no know?

That you’re more powerful when you take up responsibilities..?
That if you know how to eat, you should do yourself a favor by learning how to cook lovely meals for yourself.
That a woman whose husband support in all ramifications, get to enjoy a blissful sexual marriage?
That love comes with the whole package of giving and receiving?

That people who had everything done for them are either invalids or infants?
You still didn’t realize that the respect and love in your relationship diminishes over time if you fail to clean up after yourself.


Didn’t you figure it out yet that, the society is looking to engage women with all sorts of chores (with the help of entitled husbands) so they can turn the world upside down- so there would be no woman to help the sensible men argue and stand up for justice and human rights?

Seriously bruv; you must really be joking if you think you’re created to receive child’s treatment, and in place of breast milk.. you receive sex every night as compensation for being an adult child.
I can’t stress this enough: You’re a born leader. If my memory serves me right, leaders don’t sit back while others do their bidding.

Leaders lead with utmost sensitivity and zero sensualism.

Easy ways to lose weight naturally and fast

January 8, 2019 | Articles | 8 Comments

Weight loss management
The easy way is the best way

Weight loss/weight gain has been a trending topic on the web for the last decade. If not Tens of thousands, perhaps a few hundreds of bloggers and health practitioners have written articles, made podcasts, campaigns, and even wrote books on how to achieve a proper weight loss.

I’d tell you this; the first step required for you to commence that weight loss journey… begins with you! How? I’d tell you.

Some excessive weight gain or weight loss are psychological. You’d agree with me that, a good number of persons are unhappy with their looks; especially their body sizes.

Body arts
A sound mind aids a healthy lifestyle

So, scientifically proven, your mental and psychological behaviour may affect the way you appreciate yourself/body. Don’t forget “a sound mind aids a healthy lifestyle”

Societal views shouldn’t matter
Some years ago, skinny and petite girls were prone to depression because they’re constantly being bullied and neglected by their lovers – for their tiny body sizes, skinny nature and the inability to put up weight/add extra flesh.

Honestly, I was that girl… I used to be that girl… one who had no genuine friends. A few of my classmates back then were ashamed to be seen with me; whenever their admirers came around to woo them.

Peer pressure at school

I was clueless as to why girls my age would boastfully talk-me-down because they had bigger tits and butts than I had. I remember how disappointing that was, I was so alone and often, I wondered why my body size mattered that much. Till this very day, I am still unsure why society wants us to see some human beings as trendy commodities.

Even when i tried to befriend the boys, they pretended to like me because of my intelligence—they benefited greatly by having their homework done for them without stress. Trust me, it has been a savage society since the 21st century and that’s not about to change anytime soon.

Parents/guardians should pay more attention
If I were an unhappy kid, I probably would have gone into depression. Although, I had help with my dad buying me tons of books to read. I was privileged to have parents who saw through every of those countenances each time I returned home from school.

Reading and applying all of those positive lessons helped me build the right mind-set. In those books, there were no definite description of how a human being should appear to the public; before he/she is accepted.

They didn’t speak about models nor regard them specially— neither did they tag any woman as “plus size”. They simply called them all “beauty” and those books greatly enriched me mentally and positively. Part of the reason I became a writer.


Back to the topic:
Losing weight must be solely for you- there should be a positive reason as to why you’d want to shed those extra pounds. Honestly, I’d advise: if it’s not health detrimental, then, don’t put yourself through the unnecessary pressure.

You’re beautiful and there’s no one else around this planet.. like you! I can categorically tell you that ‘if a person loves you for your body features‘ they are undeserving of you.

Here are a few tips you can try naturally.
• Cultivate the habit of exercising without ceasing.
• Eat healthily, and accordingly- breakfast, lunch and dinner must have a proper schedule.
• Learn to swim.
• Learn to dance (extracurricular activities helps to keep the mind active and; what better ways to shed those extra pounds if not by being active?
• Learn to be sufficient for you (this is paramount), learn a new skill if you must.
• Exercise more… once this becomes a habit, then you are all set..

Learn to twerk like a pro
There’s no excuse for body-shaming

Don’t lose weight for the following reasons

Don’t lose weight for your spouse; unless he/she’s encouraging you for healthy reasons.
Don’t lose weight to fit in; Even the best of us don’t fit in — anywhere.
Don’t lose weight to attract people; Love is not weight/size related.
Don’t lose weight because it is trendy; “everyone is doing it, I might as well join in” –if you’re bored, enrol for an online class, start a blog or learn a new craft. TRENDY WILL BE OVER SOON.
Don’t lose weight for a pair of jeans; if they didn’t make your size, find a tailor who can make something similar and prettier.
Don’t lose weight for an event; it is totally unworthy.
Don’t lose weight to be a celebrity lookalike; trust me you’re better off. Some of them go through hell or high water to attain that spot, and they’re mostly skinny because the job demands it “so they say” 😉
Don’t lose weight for sex. Puuuf!!! Unless your body’s getting in the way of that kamasutra…Lolzzz. Sex is supposed to involve the genitals and not your body size/type. Every BODY is fuckable.
Don’t lose weight to appear younger; plenty downsides to this (especially when your son’s friend starts hitting on you)..duh!! Some peeps turned grey at 40, still they’re as young/sexy as they ought to be.


Losing those extra pounds for you; is the natural and right way to lose weight fast.

Kindly share your thoughts in the comments section. 💋

Reasons why we don’t need prayers but orientation…

Quotes for Christians
Ignorance is destructive…

I am not here to discuss about beliefs or talkdown those who are chronic believers of some certain pastor’s God- rather I’m simply conveying a message of truth.

A lot of people who will be reading this article may feel offended or even castigated, but the bitter truth is: YOU MUST LIVE YOUR LIFE ACCORDING TO THE RULE OF GROWTH.

Africa is a blessed land, needless to mention the uncountable minerals and natural resources that lays deep beneath the earth crust. Of all these things, we’re are regarded as one of the poorest continent.

☆☆Dear Nigerians/Africans☆☆

Latest gist about Nigeria
Take up your cross and bear it!!

In the last decade, what can we honestly beat our chest about in Nigeria?
▪Roads are terrible, especially highways.
▪Education has become more pricey.
▪The labour market keeps increasing, while value for labour decreases.
▪The government keeps exploiting us in the disguise of “education is the best legacy” — no matter where you are hiding, you must enrol your child in school… so jamb helps recycle the Monies.
▪The rich keeps soaring while the poor remains static; only because the rich people invest-and the poor pray for miracles… lolzzz
▪Women hating women because they’re angry birds…literally they hate that they’re less powerful than men. This is actually because most of our men are almost liabilities. (Beside their ego, money and genitals) they can’t really do anything.
FYI. Shame on parents who train their girls and raise their boys to be figure heads.

Let’s not even get me started, the list is endless.


 Wherefore shall we rid ourselves of this ignorance that’s slowly becoming a deadly scourge to Africans? If majority of our youths have become this clueless, how then do we prepare for the future? If you’d ask me, I’ll advise then to start acting and stop praying.


In all honesty, I think we’ve been brainwashed into believing that spirituality controls everything. That’s a negative truth, and i feel we must face reality squarely if we must attain a good stage in life.

You can’t eat up your cake and still have it! God is God and a spade glaringly remains a spade. If you don’t brush your teeth when you wake up at dawn, the Holy spirit isn’t going to do that for you. You must take up your cross and bear it.

Where to find help when in despair
God simply wants you to be responsible..!

If you desire a life of comfort, you must work hard for it. You don’t need to ask God to make you rich; brethren, he already did that for you. God needs you to take responsibility for your life.

       ☆☆Hard truth☆☆

Stop spending your salaries on pledges and elaborate events. Invest that money and it will multiply. You don’t need a pastor to give you an ultimatum, God is everywhere, He’s already with you…don’t you get it?

Do you need someone else to tell you who your father is? I mean literally, will your sibling dictate to you what your father is capable of? Aren’t you both offspring to the same parent already?

   ☆☆Let's be honest!☆☆

Let us wake up! Christianity is not the only religion there is, but in this part of the world, it has ruined more lives than we can count. Our Christian leaders needs to teach the people, give them the right orientation that will indeed foster their lives.

This is 2019, don’t holla amen to marriage proposals that you know ain’t real. If you want to marry, find yourself a date, be friends with each other, be honest with what you both want… and if he’s right for you, he’s yours.
Read also : Be absolutely happy
Perhaps, you’ve been dating the wrong ones (fuck boys), they’re just in it for the sugar. You must be smart to outsmart the player. A real guy/girl will not play with your emotions, talk more; your heart.
◇◇BIBLE Reference◇◇

Matt 16:24

If any man would come after me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow me.

The bible is the greatest compass to ever exist. You must take responsibility for your life, no magic, no prayers, this is reality. God’s ways are paramount to humans, but to truly enjoy your life with God you must first understand that; God doesn’t want you to be a liability to yourself.

Feel free to comment below, let’s hear your opinion on this topic.

Season’s greetings to you and yours😘💕